Borderline.... Feels like I'm going to lose my mind....
You just keep on pushing......my love.... -Madonna
Are you experiencing this kind of personality in your relationship?
Some therapists suggest letting them go gently, kindly. When you do eventually get shredded down to nothing and can take no more... then it's really time to let go.
Doing so however with a BPD person will look very similar to this, along with threats, name calling, ying yang mood swings and more.
....but if this is your relationship, in my opinion ......you need to get the f*ck out of it, ASAP.